Expensive E. Jean: I’m a 25-year-old marine biologist studying dolphins in Southern California. This previous yr, I fulfilled a male and have fallen really deeply in adore. (I didn’t believe I was able of it!) He’s particularly kind, generous, considerate, passionate, considerate, eye-catching, outdoorsy, and adventurous. But he is before long shifting to Colorado to go after his vocation in the Rocky Mountains. I’m satisfied that he will be performing what he enjoys, Miss Eeee, but I’m so unhappy to reduce him! He feels the same about me. I’m not interested in a long-length relationship—it looks irrational to dedicate to somebody when we have no long run strategies to live in the identical spot. I’m so annoyed by it all! He wants to be in the mountains, and my everyday living is by the sea. What are we to do? —Sidetracked in SoCal
Miss out on Aspect, My Luv: What the hell are you speaking about? Didn’t you shock on your own when you fell in adore? Your actual words and phrases: “I didn’t assume I was able of it!” And now you’re so hip, so slick, so sensible in the approaches of like you won’t even look at your boyfriend’s pleasure? You refuse to try—repeat, consider—a 6-thirty day period very long-length marriage? Female, pull you together and give it a whirl. The dolphins, I consider, will again Auntie Eeee up.
This letter is from the Request E. Jean Archive, 1993-2017. Send inquiries to E. Jean at E.Jean@AskEJean.com.